Women of Influence Award: July 2015

What a fabulous turnout it was to celebrate the achievements of our very own Jill Alexander and the founder of Indigo kids, Sarah Seaton. Over 100 people attended, including the Mayor of Gedling Borough Council, Bob Collis and Chief Executive of Nottinghamshire Community Foundation, Nina Dauban. Both ‘Women of Influence’ received a cut glass paperweight and a hefty cheque in support of their charities. We would like to thank Carol Parkinson and Nina Dauban for their tireless work in organising such a fantastic and worthwhile event.

The work of our unpaid staff is absolutely vital to the work we do and really would be impossible without people like Jill, Liz Thomas, and Olivia Astin to name but a few. Thank you ladies, you are all our Women of Influence!

News Story in the Mansfield Chad, 6 May 2014

Charity for survivors of childhood sexual abuse says it will ‘help more victims than ever’

A charity for childhood sexual abuse victims and survivors is going from strength to strength with the launch of a new base in Mansfield.

Thanks to the courage of Jacqui Lewis, the charity was set up following their individual battles with childhood sexual abuse.

Founders Jacqui Lewis and Ezzie Bainbridge launched the charity in 1998 as a self help group.

Almost sixteen years later and SHE UK (Supporting, Healing and Educating) has exploded from three women meeting over coffee to more than five hundred members.

Celebrating its expansion from Newark to Mansfield, the launch on 3rd May saw the opening of its fifth base in Nottinghamshire.

a therapy room

Chief executive, Nicci Robinson, now wants to reach out to more members than ever.

“Part of the reason we moved here was because of the building’s massive potential for expansion.

“We currently help over five hundred survivors of these heinous crimes, and referrals are ever increasing,” she said.

cutting of the ribbon

Earlier this year the charity supported Michelle Noble, from Sutton.

Ms Noble broke her anonymity to speak out and appeal for her case, alleging a police officer raped her at 14, to be reopened.

This is just one example of SHE UK’s work as it moves to meet demand for its services to Byron Street, Mansfield.

Nicci joined SHE UK in July. She said it is an exciting time for the charity with hopes to open another base in Nottingham in the summer and expand its reach internationally through the use of digital media.


“In 2001, we became a registered charity after the demand exploded.

“We went from three to something like five hundred. Now, we are concentrating on growing the charity and helping more people.

“We have always had a drop-in in Mansfield but we have bigger plans.”

With funding from The Provincial Grand Lodge of Nottinghamshire and Mansfield Lions, a £3,150 donation has helped the charity get on its feet and create two new therapy rooms in its new premises.

It is currently finishing creative work spaces and a kitchen.

But donations are now needed to further renovate the Byron Street building and build a children’s room and furnish it with curtains, furniture and craft materials.

Nicci added: “We don’t just need donations, we also need volunteers and their time to help us carry out the work to help us effectively help our members.

“I want to say a massive thank you to those who have supported us so far and also Mansfield Van Hire who have provided us with a van free of charge for the big move.

“Vicky Kennedy, a local fitness instructor, held a Zumbathon for us to raise nearly £710 for our relocation.”

As well as fund raising to continue its work, one of the charity’s main aims is to build trust and a safe environment for survivors to share their story.

Nicci believes that what sets S.H.E UK apart is its ability to offer a holistic approach.

At a time when 115,000 women and 76,000 men are affected by some form of sexual abuse in Nottinghamshire, SHE UK is needed more than ever.

Nicci said: “If you say to a survivor ‘you have 24 weeks of counselling starting from now’, some might take three or four weeks just to get their name out, you can’t put a timescale on dealing with these things.

“SHE UK is unique across Nottinghamshire in that it offers long term counselling to survivors.

“We look at the person as a whole rather than just what is going on in their head. We look at their social life, family life, we support everything.

“We will even deal with housing issues and court proceedings.”

The charity is also making bold waves in offering members art workshops as a way of therapy.

Hanging in the reception of the charity is artwork completed by one of its members representing her feelings of childhood sexual abuse.

“Creative art therapy helps get negative emotions out in a positive way. The artwork can sometimes be very dark but it shows progression,” Nicci says.

And with childhood sexual abuse a prevalent issue in the media, SHE UK hopes to start extending its services to child victims sooner.

“We want to try and get in at the point of abuse rather than years later.

“If help is offered sooner it can help reduce the likelihood of survivors self harming, becoming depressed and severe anxiety setting in.”

To read the article in the Chad, please click this link.


News Story in the Mansfield Chad, 19 May 2014


Abuse charity speaks out on assault claims

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The head of a Mansfield-based support charity for survivors of sex abuse has spoken out following news that a teenage woman has been accused of wasting police time after reporting a sex attack at the town’s Racecourse Park.

The report of the attack on 2nd May sparked panic in the area that a serial sex attacker had struck again following a similar assault in the park in September last year around the same time.

News that the 17-year-old girl had been summoned to court for wasting police time sparked outrage on Facebook, with many saying false accusations made it much harder for genuine victims to report assaults to police.

Nicci Robinson, chief executive of Mansfield’s SHE UK, said: “It is a massive step to even go to someone and tell them anything about an incident of abuse or sexual violence – whether to a friend or services that help.

“But to go to police is just huge – that can be several steps along the journey – and it is difficult enough when the justice system does not make it easy.

“The problem is it makes it harder for genuine cases to be believed because an officer who interviewed and believed someone making a false allegation to be sincere may doubt genuine cases in future.”

Ms Robinson said initial belief and trust in the victim was paramount in police investigations.

She added: “You are asking them to suspend disbelief before proceeding with the investigation and making sure the allegation is true.”

To read the story in the Chad, please click here.



One of our members in the National News
December 2013

Guardian Article Michelle Noble

One of our members, Michelle Noble, made the national news when she waived anonymity after being told that her case about being raped by a police officer when she was 14 cannot be reopened. She is now also training to be a counsellor.

Read the full story in the Guardian here.


S.H.E. in the News
July 2013
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